I know I haven’t updated this blog in quite a while, and I apologize for the delayed responses to all those wanting to help. I’ve been in the process of relocating and just in time since Detelina was sharing my previous address online. Sure, I could have shared her address or the names and contact details of her co-workers, but I haven’t. Detelina did create a GOT account with my full name, which I thought was funny, but surprising that she’d want us to go down that road of creating fake online accounts with our real information.
Fun fact: Detelina returned in October 2020 not only to brag about her Tinder conquests but to try to manipulate me into dating my best friend. I guess she figured if she pushed me towards dating my best friend and convinced me he was in love with me, it would prevent me from dating her ex-fiancee Radu Popovici, but I was already involved in a scam relationship with him at that point.
Anyways, last month was a turning point for this website because my little blog hit 6k visitors and now over several thousand unique visitors since going public back in June. I know seven thousand isn’t really a lot of viewers in terms of internet viewership, but considering this website was only shared privately and on a few social media websites, is pretty incredible. Also, a quick shoutout to “Miss S” for the Google ad credits, which I do plan to use in the future.
Despite friends of Radu Popovici, like Kagome, and Baird telling you to “ignore” the blog or call exposing an abuser “spam” only because they were desperate to hide the truth from you, you still came. His other friend Tudor Matei actually came here and called this blog “defamation” yet was unable to prove that anything written here is false. You arrived here with many questions and I hope that I was able to help you find some answers.
There is a reason why so many of you have continued to visit over the last few months. I’m not a writer, I’m just someone who wrote about her experience dating a narcissistic abuser who scammed me. This blog also allowed me to connect with others who Radu Popovici/IAMLEJND has berated and abused. Other visitors have shared their own experiences with mental and physical abuse. These new friendships I will cherish forever and I’m grateful for you guys being so open and for all the support you’ve shown me.
Of course, those who seek to manipulate and confuse you in private might have tried to convince you of their innocence, but none of the people I’ve written about here are innocent. I’m not without fault, but I don’t go after innocent people. Never have!
I stayed away from him for over a month and returned to ask for the things he promised I could have back. His disgusting hate-filled response, flooded with insults and abuse towards me is what set things into motion and the real reason this blog went public. He knew it would happen, but he didn’t care, and he definitely didn’t care what would happen to those he claimed he cared about.
Radu Popovici better known as IAMLEJND/Alucard/Red Satan
Racist – Personally, I don’t think he fits the textbook definition of a racist, but most people would never ask a minority if they could have a pass to use a racial slur around them, as he did with me. I do think that he has certain negative views towards minorities that others could see as racially insensitive or maybe even racist.
Sexist – I don’t need to explain much here. If you’re a woman and you’ve gone against him, you’ve likely experienced his hatred towards women at max level. After all, he does believe that men are superior to women, those are his own words.
Homophobic – Most know this about him.
Transphobic – He confirmed his disgust for trans people when he responded with “eww†and “sick†after I pointed out that Discord now had gender-neutral emojis.
Ableist – Again, if you know him, then you know he has no problems making sick jokes about the disabled, handicapped, and those who have an intellectual disability. His former best friend, who he bullied to tears, has a child with autism and she asked him many times to not use the word “retarded†around her, but he continued.
Scammer + Cheater + Liar + Abuser – My own insecurities allowed me to believe that an online scammer had feelings for me, but I was really involved in a scam relationship that was filled with abuse. No matter what people believe about me, it doesn’t change who he is or what he did to me and other women. It’s easy to ignore everyone who has accused him of the same abuse when you’ve been manipulated for months by him. It’s easy to just call me crazy because I chose to expose a bunch of lying, cheating, narcissistic, abusive scammers online.
Both Radu Popovici and Detelina Marinova use and abuse innocent people. They have both severely hurt others and have no remorse. They pretend to have romantic feelings for their victims, but it’s a game they both play. When they have taken your time, money, energy, heart and you believe they are in love with you, they then gaslight you and ultimately discard you. I’m almost convinced this is a sick twisted game they both play together to amuse themselves.
Radu Popovici never apologized for using me, when at the time that’s all I wanted. He didn’t even bother to return my things after his scam was exposed. I had to file claims with Parcel Force and report my items as stolen because he refused to give them back. I’m still trying to recover my money 3 months later because Parcel Force can’t find my things.
I lost so much money because of him and his lies. He was laughing at me the entire time and playing a game with me. He told me to freeze my eggs because he wanted children with me, a process which I started and would later lose my deposit because he was just in need of someone to help him get over his ex-fiancee Detelina, who he later cheated on me with. But be sure there will always be some desperate, confused woman out there that feels sorry for him and we will want to “fix” him. That woman will convince herself that he’s just a victim of his circumstances, while simultaneously ignoring all the abuse he inflicted onto others.
But on the bright side, he did finally find a job after months of me motivating him and begging him to work and literally trying everything possible to get him to find a job. My guess is, he’s likely quit that job already. He is who he is and he hates change. I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again… no one will ever know him as I do. I saw the real him, not the “IAMLEJND” fake ass bullshit persona he shows everyone. And because I tapped into every corner of his mind, he tried to destroy me for it.
Maneater + Liar – For a period of time after her breakup with Radu Popovici, she basically spent all her time in GOT looking for men to feed her desperate narc need for attention. When she became bored with one man, she went to the next, leaving a trail of hurt and confusion for the men who believe she cared about them, after she dropped them for her next victim. She never cared about these men. She’s still pining for her ex-husband Simon, but decided to play around with Radu Popovici to pass time, despite knowing he was with me at the time.
Cheater + Manipulator + Insecure – Detelina Marinova really wants to believe that Radu Popovici was concerned about her after this blog was made public. Three weeks after this blog went public, but before being shared on various platforms, Radu Popovici had the opportunity to have it shut down and have everything erased, and he declined. Detelina also had the option to stop everything before everyone was made aware of this website, but she chose to make threats instead.
Let’s also not forget that Radu Popovici tried to turn everyone against Detelina because she dared to change the password to her own accounts after they broke up. He made it very clear to everyone that his feelings were never that strong for her, despite agreeing to marry her after she proposed to him in a group voice chat. He later admitted he only accepted her proposal because she put him on the spot. Detelina Marinova knows he never loved her, because anyone who knows him, knows that he is incapable of real love. The only things he loves are Peggy’s (NO One/IAMNOONE) account, Alucard, his lifestyle, and his video games. I also don’t feel sorry for Peggy because she’s just another gullible old woman who thinks he cares about her and not just her account. We all were there once!
Of course, Detelina still ran to try to clean up his mess. She made threats to involve the police and sue everyone involved with this blog. I’m actually a reasonable person despite what people say about me and I would have allowed her to explain herself if she had any remorse after cheating with him, but like Radu, the only thing she knows is how to make threats and intimidate. The funny thing is, her anger was so misplaced. The people who actually betrayed her were from her own inner circle and she still has no idea who they are. They didn’t betray her because they hate her, but only because they realized the sort of person she really is. What Mythisar shared about her doesn’t even compare.
Instigator + Protects abusers – “Adam” or better known as Epix/Kagome introduced Radu Popovici to Natalie Flores-Dirain in an attempt to get him to cheat on me with her simply because he didn’t like me. Adam Hijazi came here to complain via live chat that his name was published on my blog. My chat rep at the time removed his information without my permission. Once I found out, I thought about leaving Adam’s name off the blog since, unlike the others I’ve written about here, he didn’t threaten to bring in lawyers to take my blog down. That was until I read the chat transcript and saw that he told me to suck his dick when he initially thought he was chatting with me and not another person.
The “virgin” religious Lebanese “Adam” who complains to his best friend about his inability to find a woman to have sex with him told me to suck his dick. He’s another one of those guys who has no respect for women, and why would he considering he idolizes Radu Popovici and doesn’t have a mind of his own. These are the sort of friends Radu enjoys having. People like Adam who just says “yes” and never question anything he’s being told.
Natalie Flores-Dirain AKA Aiko Yui Kagawan
Cheater + Liar – Natalie Flores-Dirain emotionally cheated on her boyfriend with Radu because she was so desperate for attention. She later denied she was cheating on her boyfriend to all her friends. Albeit, she took great pleasure in letting me know that Radu Popovici made her “feel good†and said he loved her, and how desperate she was to meet him, despite having a loving man at home. I do feel very sorry for her boyfriend because he’s likely the type she can easily manipulate. Her recent flood of snaps is laughable. A girl who loves and respects her boyfriend would never allow another dude that’s interested in her romantically to make her “feel good†or say “I love you†and then make plans to meet up with him.
SpankQueen AKA WHATEVER!
Fake + Low Self-Esteem + Seeks validation – SpankQueen is a girl from Poland and she is the type of person who talks shit about you in private while pretending to be your friend in public. She is another one of those girls who are gossipy, insecure, desperate to be seen, so she makes a lot of noise with millions of comments, and repetitive GIFS and shit, because she’s been ignored her whole life, and not to mention VERY gullible. She’s easily manipulated because of her lack of experience and lack of self-worth. Basically, she’s the perfect target for a narcissistic trap by an experienced narcissist, such as IAMLEJND.
Deep down she knows that IAMLEJND not only told me, but also told others that she was using revenge porn to blackmail men, but she’s so pathetic and so desperate to be in his inner circle that she chooses to believe I made it all up. I’d never even spoken to her until May of this year and I had absolutely no reason to lie to her or make false claims about her. What I didn’t know back in May is that what IAMLEJND told me about her was actually true. She and her friends were pretending to be interested in random guys who played GOT, then they would beg for their nudes with the sole purpose of blackmailing these men. For the money, black diamonds, a laugh? It’s anyone’s guess.
IAMLEJND is secretly laughing at how dumb she is. She’s target practice for him. Spanky also came to this blog and connected via live chat and made threats to get a lawyer, even though only her IGN and GOT profile were being used on the blog at that time. I once respected her until I realized how fake and desperate she IS for his attention.
She values herself so little that she seeks validation from IAMLEJND of all people. Such a far cry from the girl who once portrayed herself as strong and once wanted to take him down. She once stood up for herself and had self-respect. But she really only saw him being exposed by me as an opportunity to hop in his DM’s, which she did immediately by the way. She’s too inexperienced and naive to realize that narcissistic people feed on that sort of attention. Thus, the trap was set for the insecure, desperate, lonely Spanky. She hangs on his every word, worshipping him, laughing at every corny, vulgar joke like some lovesick school girl. Sounds familiar, right?
Remember when I said there will always be a lonely, desperate girl who thinks he’s innocent and needs saving? Well, ENTER Spanky. Women like Spanky ignore the warning signs of abusive men. So, it’s no surprise that she ended up in his alliance trailing him. You could literally show her the scars, the arrest records, videos and she’d still make excuses for her abuser because she’s the type of woman that believes it won’t happen to her. I wonder if IAMLEJND jokes about punching her in the liver as well? Since according to him he could do damage to my liver and there would be no evidence for the police to link back to him. Something every woman wants to hear from the guy she’s dating, huh? God, why didn’t run after he told me that?!?!?!
Anyways, he was absolutely right about Spanks desperately wanting to be close to him. But why would anyone beg for acceptance from someone who says “eww” and “yuck” when speaking about you or someone that calls you ugly? Maybe she’s just being groomed to become another victim too? Or just wanting to stay close to her abuser. Too bad she doesn’t have any real friends to protect her. And sure she can blame me for writing about her here, but the reality is, I wouldn’t know these things about if IAMLEJND didn’t tell me. And sure he’ll tell Spanky how sorry he is that all this has happened to her, but the truth is, he doesn’t actually mean it. He’s already said out loud who he’s most concerned for, and her name didn’t make the list. He also doesn’t trust her.
He’s sees everything black and white and once he found out she tried to take him down, she all but confirmed that he would never trust her. Of course, he’ll pretend he likes her, esp if she spends money on GOT or can bring friends with high BR’s to his alliance, which is all that matters. If she’s kissing his ass, he’ll use her to feel a little less like shit about himself. She’s too dumb to realize he has followers, not friends.
Pssssst Spanky…. let me give you some advice since I know you like to visit here often. You have to teach people how to treat you. When someone does things to hurt you, whether emotional or physical and you ignore it, pretend it didn’t happen, make excuses for their actions, you’ve then successfully taught that individual that you are more than ok with them continuing to do those hurtful things to you.
So, when Alucard/IAMLEJND/Radu spreads malicious rumors about you, calls you ugly & deliberately prevent you from obtaining a mod position that you REALLY wanted because he didn’t like you, and then you proceed to kiss his ass and beg for his friendship and run to join his alliance, then you’ve now taught him how you should and can be treated.
So, the next time he feels compelled to do these things to you (and he will) he won’t hesitate, because he thinks you’re stupid and you have now confirmed for him that you have very low self-esteem, and are willing to worship him despite the way he treats you. Hey, I was you once, so I get it. Please learn from the experience of others who arrived before you, so you don’t go down the same abusive path. I had nobody to warn me about him and it cost me dearly.
Dee
Habitual liar – I wanted to believe I was wrong about Dee after she contacted me regarding my since-deleted blog post about her. Sadly, she reached out to me only hoping to have the blog removed and to funnel information to her friend Detelina/CloveR. After the incident where Dee lied about “Perry”, which later led to Radu verbally abusing his former best friend “Perry” I should have known she couldn’t be trusted. There have been rumors since I’ve known Dee that she was a habitual liar, because every day she would post elaborate stories about herself and her family on Discord. There were always at least 20 different tragedies happening weekly to her family. They’re people in her current alliance that have discussed her lying in private. I wanted to believe that her PTSD was the reason for her lying, but one never knows.
And despite Dee’s own background with physical violence, she is much like the other loyalist who hang around him. She uses the excuse that remaining in his alliance preserves her friendships with others, but in all honesty, like others who have attached themselves to Radu Popovici, she finds it difficult to leave. GOT for many people is also like a popularity contest. Being in a big alliance makes players feel somehow powerful. People who have the worse problems in life attach themselves to games like GOT because it makes them and their real life seem better than it really is.
The only reason I haven’t disclosed her full name or current photos after she tried to manipulate me with her lying BS is that she recently claimed that her rapist was out on parole and since I have no idea what her truth really is, I’ve opted to keep that info private for now.
