His new girlfriend is his old victim [Explicit]

Spanks is quite known throughout many Discord servers because she often posts thousands of messages, and emojis, hoping someone will notice her. When I first interacted with her back in May, she portrayed herself as some badass girl, who didn’t take shit from anyone. Someone strong enough to see through someone like Radu. However, she’s deeply insecure, despite status messages claiming to have “sharp claws”. She’s also a fake, two-faced snake and is currently dating the same person who emotionally abused me and devalued her to me.

SpankQueen was made aware of what ex Radu told me about her back in late May 2021. By now, you know that Radu/IAMLEJND laughed and said “eww, yeah, she’s ugly” during a phone call I had with him. When I inquired further about who SpankQueen was, he told me how she and her friends were blackmailing guys in the Game of Thrones online browser game, trading their nudes with friends, and because of his disgust for Spanks, he claimed he’d never allow her to be a moderator on his precious Discord server.

So, most would find it surprising to know that they began dating last year. However, I am not. I know Radu well enough to know his type. She checked every box on his shortlist of qualities that he seeks in his targets, which is why I continued writing about her to prove a point to my friends that he’d choose her. I was right. The first requirement Radu looks for, and the most important one is that you must be “insecure” the second is naive, followed by desperate, lonely, gullible, and willing to believe everything he says. It also helps if you really REALLY hate me.

When I spoke to Spanky back in late May 2021, she was very eager to take down IAMLEJND after learning about what he said about her. She wanted to make him her “bitch”. I already did that, hun. Her attitude towards him had changed when I returned a month later. When I reached out to chit-chat, she tried to manipulate me by saying I should let everything go because she was worried about how my blog would affect me mentally. What she failed to disclose to me at the time is that she was already in his DM’s trying to date him, like a true snake. Just that quickly he had turned her. I knew then she was being groomed to be his next victim/girlfriend.

What Spanks doesn’t realize is that she’s not special. She’s a username. She has a vagina. She has incredibly LOW self-esteem. There is absolutely nothing about her that makes her any different from all of us who came before her. She’s part of a pattern. Another body that Radu collects. Someone around to make him feel less like shit by offering to love him. Once he drops her, or she becomes fed up with his lack of desire to improve his life, he’ll repeat the process all over again with any girl who is within close proximity of basically any video games he’s playing at the moment. I thought Detelina was the biggest fool to have dated him, but no it’s Spanks. She had all the evidence and she still chose to overlook everything in order to believe that some guy from the internet suddenly loves her. If their relationship was organic, wouldn’t he have noticed her before, wouldn’t he have tried something sooner with all the attention she was seeking on the GOT discord?

Sure, it’s very easy for her to just call me a liar with my reputation because believing what I’ve written about him would confirm everything I’ve written about her. And for the sake of argument, let’s say that I’m lying about everything.

Facts are:

• He suffers from extreme clinical depression. 15+ years now.
• He is a video game addict, who just recently clocked 850+ hours of Myth of Empires in a month and is now playing 250+ Steam hours every 2 weeks.
• No drive or desire to better his life. He told me that he hates sitting in a classroom.
• He has dated multiple women online, so he can collect their nudes.
• Hasn’t worked in 10+ years until mid-summer last year. He later quit that job in less than 3 months. Confirmed by a friend of his family.
• He is a massive bully online. He loves belittling others.

Knowing all these facts about him, Spanky still begged for her name to be added to the list of women he’s used. Spanks, I bet you think it’s love, don’t you? It isn’t. He shifts and shapes his personality, his thoughts, and opinions to coincide with what you want and tell him you need. I wanted kids, so he told me to freeze my eggs and talked about going to gyno visits with me and said he wanted children too, even going as far as naming our future children. Detelina (his ex before me) wanted marriage, so he agreed to marry her, despite never loving her and later confessing he only agreed to marry her because she put him on the spot when she proposed. Natalie (the ‘toy’ that came after me) wanted attention and a break from her boyfriend, so he told her he loved her 1 month after our breakup. What have you told him you want, Spanks? An online boyfriend who has some power in a video game? Sexual attention, despite the fact that you know he was never attracted to you, and the fact is, he’s attracted to women with body types like Detelina. Spanky, you call yourself “thicc”? If you look at photos of all his ex-girlfriends, they all are very petite and thin. Even his old avatars feature women with very thin bodies and massive breasts.

 

He’s used to doing no work and getting exactly what he wants from people. He’s figured out that the more he devalues those with low self-esteem, the more he can get out of them. He has massive mommy issues and his parents have been giving him everything he wants his entire life.

Take his ex Detelina, for instance,  a woman who was married to an Oxford-educated neuroscientist, Radu made this 43-year-old woman feel like a teen in love. Rather than tell him to go to work when he moved in with her,  she opened her wallet, then she sat and played video games with him day and night. Feeding his addition, something I’m sure you’re doing right now too. Detelina gave him everything he wanted and in the end, he watched her walk out the door and then he devalued her by saying his nearly 2-year long relationship never meant that much to him. Do you believe you have something Detelina didn’t?

I’ve spoken to multiple women he dated, who confirmed how he treated them.